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How to Fix My Marriage
Ask yourself: “Yes and…”
Why he won’t tend to your needs (even after you tend to his)
How to talk to him about YOUR needs
Men, Women and Communication
What if real love can EVOLVE?
If you’ve ever asked “What about ME?”
Who’s Your Person?
The Most Beautiful Thing I’ve Ever Heard a Client Say
Are You Protecting a Story?
Why We Control
What Would Happen If…
Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
What if I’m Not Attracted to Him Anymore?
The Power of the Pause (When Your Spouse Irritates You)
The Quest to Better Understand Men
Have I Outgrown My Husband?
When do you know the marriage is over?
One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
One Simple Way to Get Out of Roommate Status
Some Of Your Husbands Will Love Me. Some Won’t.
Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.
Inspiring Isn’t Always Effective
What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?
Why Is Fixing the Relationship My Responsibility?
What’s the Worst That Will Happen?
A Mic Drop Marriage Moment
Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
Obligation and Marriage
My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
Can One Person Make a Difference?
Will My Husband Ever Change?
Understanding Emotional Infidelity
Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
The Five Steps to Having Difficult Conversations
She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle
The Shame of Staying
Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
Resentments of an Alpha Female
Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
The Kiss of Death for Your Marriage: The Need to be Right
Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
Someone Has to Take the Lead
What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
What if No One has to be Wrong?
The Tornado of the Type A Woman
The Guardian of His Solitude
Protecting Your Heart
Why Your Husband Shuts Down
Do You and Your Husband Talk about the Weather?
Some Practical Relationship Advice
Let’s Talk Love & Bondage…
Two Years in Therapy and $6500 Later…
Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
Will My Marriage Last?
I’m Not the Problem
When We Withhold Love
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
We Belong to Each Other
Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
He Doesn’t Get It
50 Ways We Leave Our Lovers
I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
Neither Wanted to Give In… So They Both Gave Up
Why is Fifty Shades of Grey so Appealing to Mature Women?
Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
Is There Still Hope?
One Couple. Six Months. Total Relationship Transformation.
You’re on the Same Team
Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
Who Will Fix the Relationship?
There are Two Sides to Every Story…and they’re both right.
How to Make a Marriage Thrive
The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
Want to Heal Your Relationship? Find Forgiveness.
Reconnect & Learn Something New about Your Partner
A Marriage Counseling Drawback
Accepting an Apology You Never Receive
Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
Your Relationship Scorecard
What a Shame.
Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
Too Little. Too Late.
90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?
It’s Not (Only) About the Affair
The Disconnected Marriage
An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.
The Pain in Relationships is Circular
Why is Connecting with My Husband so Difficult?
What I Learned from Jim Masters & How It Relates to Our Relationships
The Single Biggest Relationship Mistake that We ALL Make
Keeping the Boardroom Out of the Bedroom: Keeping the Intimacy of Marriage
I’ve Tried Everything and Nothing is Working
We’re Missing an Intimate Connection. Here’s Why…
How to Heal After an Affair
There is No Relationships Class. No One Teaches Us How to Do This
We Have Grown Apart. Here’s What to Do…
January is Considered Divorce Month for a Reason
I Should Be Grateful
Is My Marriage in Trouble?
Can a Troubled Marriage be Saved?
Why Isn’t This Enough?
I Love Him, but I’m Not in Love with Him
If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?
My Single Biggest Piece of Advice for Men
Where does Marriage Counseling Fail Us?
Relationships Drift. Marriages End. Hearts Break Open.
Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is a Mess
Can We Save this Marriage?
Most Recent For Women
What are you NOT saying?
Why you’re still struggling…
Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
You Won’t Be the Same Person
I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
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Most Recent For Men
The Need to Be Right
Ways to Not Make the Same Relationship Mistakes
Why Your Wife Gets Frustrated and You Shut Down
Not Attracted To Your Wife Anymore?
Choosing Between Two Women
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