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Stuck in Indecision: Stay or Go?

• The 3 versions of unhappy (in your marriage)
• What you can learn from what comes after “BUT”…
• Why you’re still struggling…
• Have you noticed any of these red flags?
• Why you DON’T have to give him a list of to-do’s…
• When it’s time to ask, “Are you willing?”
• Step OUT of your comfort zone to ignite change…
• NO ONE is meant to be controlled…
• How to Know if A Woman is Checked Out of Her Marriage
• I’m monitoring everything he does…
• COVID Has Been Hard on Marriages
• A Crowded Marriage
• Setting a Boundary (in the Name of Love)
• Are You in a Lonely Marriage?
• What Do You REALLY Want?
• I Don’t Want to Lose My Family
• Making a Decision When There’s an Affair
• How My Marriage Kept Me Stuck in My Wounds
• Being Ready to Create Change in Your Life
• Do I Have to Forget the Past to Move Forward?
• Will These Changes Last?
• You Have the Relationship You Want. (Read that again.)
• I Can’t Do That to Him
• 2021: Will This Be the Year You Finally Decide?
• How Our Self-Respect Plays a Role in Marriage
• Maybe Now Is the Perfect Time
• How Do I Know Whether to Stay or Go?
• The Silent Contract Between You Two
• What Are We Arguing About?
• Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
• What’s the Worst That Will Happen?
• Waiting for Change
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
• Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
• When a Marriage is Tested
• I’m Stuck. Is That True?
• It’s Going to Get Rough 🌩️
• One Reason for Some Affairs: Disconnection from Self
• Enough is Enough. (Rant Warning)
• Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
• Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
• Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
• Choosing Between Two Men
• I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
• Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
• He’s Not Meeting My Needs
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
• Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
• But My Situation Is Different…
• Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
• Surviving Infidelity
• Can I Trust Him?
• Understanding Emotional Infidelity
• Verbally Abusive Relationship
• How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
• Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
• If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
• 1825 Days Without Affection
• Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
• Why Bother Trying?
• The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
• Why I Don’t Give Advice
• Support Groups Seem Like a Perfectly Logical Idea…
• Begging for Affection
• I Don’t Miss Him Because…
• How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
• I Didn’t Go Looking for an Affair
• When We Betray Ourselves
• The Power in Making a Decision
• The Four Stages of Marriage
• Comfortably Unhappy
• A Confused Mind Does Nothing
• What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
• Would You Stay if Your Husband Cheated? Three Questions to Help You Decide if You Should Stay or Go.
• There is No Such Thing as Destiny
• Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
• Indecision Sucks
• Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
• 50 Ways We Leave Our Lovers
• Can I Afford to Leave My Husband?
• What’s Important to You?
• Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
• What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
• The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
• Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
• Seek This Before Deciding to Leave Your Marriage
• Why Do So Many Second and Third Marriages End?
• Does He Have Something to Hide
• Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
• Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
• Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
• The Hidden Toll of an Unhealthy Marriage
• When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
• I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
• Stop Engaging in “The Crazy.”
• Is He on Good Behavior or Is This Lasting Change?
• What if Your Relationship is Complete?
• You Have 3 Options When Your Marriage is Falling Apart
• Is This the Kind of Marriage You Hope Your Daughter has One Day?
• The Problem with Staying for the Kids
• Love Him, but Not in Love with Him
• What are You Allowing in Your Relationship?
• My Affair is Over. Now What?
• Soft and Strong
• There are No Guarantees in Love
• Can I Have the Life I Want with My Husband?
• Three Reasons Why Asking Your Spouse to Go to Marriage Counseling with You Rarely Works
• Your Lawyer Isn’t Your Relationship Coach
• Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?
• The Loveless Marriage
• I Have No Reason to Leave
• I Can’t Leave My Marriage and I Can’t Stop My Affair
• When Good Women Cheat
• The Opposite of Love Isn’t Hate. It’s Indifference.
• Why Can’t He Stop Cheating? And Why Can’t I Walk Away? Here are the Options.
• His Affair. Her Heartbreak. Rinse and Repeat.
• The Facebook Affair
• The Paradox of Loneliness
• If You Leave Your Marriage, You Take Yourself with You
• A Cry for Help: When Your Marriage is in Trouble, the Distance Grows Wider and You get Rebellious
• On Some Level, We Knew the Truth
• The Magic Pill for My Marriage
• Will He Ever Change?
• The REAL Story about My First Marriage and Why It Ended
• The Safe Marriage
• Hitting Rock Bottom in Your Relationship.
• When the Arguing Ends and You’re Left with a Grudging Tolerance
• Your Sexless Marriage
• What if Cheating Isn’t Wrong?
• Reconciling Divorce and Marriage Vows
• It’s Easier to Walk Away from Marriage in Anger and Hurt
• Emotional Abuse is Still Abuse
• The Inevitability of Change in Relationships
• That’s His Story
• Why We Stay – Even When It Hurts
• Staying Stuck in the Questions
• Maybe Am I in the Wrong Marriage is the Wrong Question.
• Love is Durable. Trust is Fragile. Respect is Crucial.
• Stuck in Indecision
• What if You were Already Alone?
• The Path out of Emotional Abuse is through the Door of Self Love
• Together & Alone
• The Awakening
• Life Will Never be the Same
• Should I Stay or Should I Go?