How to fix my marriage

You Can Have the Relationship You Desire

You Can Have the Relationship You Desire

You CAN have the relationship you desire.You CAN create the relationship of your dreams!It’s possible for you… just like it was possible for me. Give me five minutes to explain how! Because I hear...

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We Place Our Marriages On A Shelf

We Place Our Marriages On A Shelf

Most of us get married because it’s something that we want within the life we’re creating. Which means, it’s somewhat like a milestone goal. And what happens when you “accomplish” the goal? You move...

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Book Release: In Love

Book Release: In Love

Most coaches write books to establish credibility in their industry and preach their message to a wider platform. But I’ve written eight books (and counting)... I didn’t write this book for...

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How to talk to him about YOUR needs

“Never apologize for asking for what you need, if you don’t ask - the answer will always be no.” Ken Petti Everyone has needs. And pretending otherwise is a lie. Women often have a difficult...

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Men, Women and Communication

“Refusing to ask for help when you need it is refusing someone the chance to be helpful.” Ric Ocasek When our lives become stressful, do you think we should communicate more or less inside our...

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What if real love can EVOLVE?

“How does the pressing reality of the ‘I’ve gotta have him every minute of the day’ feeling in the brain transmute to an ‘Oh, hi, you again...How’s everything?’ state of mind? The hormone rushes of...

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Who’s Your Person?

“When you share the details of your daily life, you create connection between two people. When you withhold details from your daily life from your spouse, you create disconnection.” - Sharon Pope We...

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Are You Protecting a Story?

“Nothing happens until the pain of remaining the same outweighs the pain of change.” Arthur Burt My client and her husband are both entrepreneurs. But my client was always frustrated because her...

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Why We Control

“We only control what we don’t trust...Love is the opposite of control. Love demands trust.” Glennon Doyle One of my most favorite things as a coach is going back to review the words that were...

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What Would Happen If…

 “Sometimes life is going to hit you in the head with a brick.” Steve Jobs What would happen if you stopped showing up for work? Seriously, pretend that starting tomorrow you’re just not going to...

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What if I’m Not Attracted to Him Anymore?

“But when you are attracted to someone it’s because of the details...their kindness...their eyes...their smile...the fact that they can get you to laugh when you need it most.” Unknown Author Some...

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The Quest to Better Understand Men

“God’s purpose for man is to acquire a seeing eye and an understanding heart.” - Rumi If we want to have amazing relationships with men, we need to understand men a little better. (And yes, if men...

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Have I Outgrown My Husband?

If one has not in fact grown in the course of a marriage, it has been a dreadful disaster. Mere longevity in a marriage is not necessarily something to celebrate, for what happened to the souls of...

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When do you know the marriage is over?

“I went to war for what we had; you never even laced your boots.” N.R. Shepherd When do you know the marriage is over? When do you stop fighting for the marriage? My client listed all the things...

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Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.

“Your children will become who you are; so be who you want them to be.” -David Bly My new client and I met for the first time on our first video coaching session. It is during this first session...

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Inspiring Isn’t Always Effective

A few days ago, I posted a quote from Frida Kahlo (a world-renowned self-portrait painter, with multiple disabilities in the early 1900s and a role model for generations of artists) to her husband...

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What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?

“Oh, you weak, beautiful people who give up with such grace. What you need is someone to take hold of you - gently, with love, and hand your life back to you.”  Tennessee Williams There was a time...

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What’s the Worst That Will Happen?

“When we avoid difficult conversations, we trade short-term discomfort for long-term dysfunction.” Peter Bromberg Maybe you’ve been avoiding having a difficult conversation with your spouse. Maybe...

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A Mic Drop Marriage Moment

A Mic Drop Marriage Moment

“Difficult roads lead to beautiful destinations.” Zig Ziglar I have been working with R. for some time and she and her husband’s relationship have gone through plenty of high and low points. But...

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Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing

"The first duty of love is to listen."  Paul Tillich   When we intellectually know something is both necessary and important… But we still choose to not pay much attention to it… That means...

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Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three

Why is marriage so hard? Does it have to be this difficult? Shouldn't it be easier? The answer is yes, but it will require us to begin accepting and embracing our differences rather than railing...

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Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two

Why is marriage so hard? Why do my needs never get met? Will things ever change? I’ve been learning everything I possibly can about the differences between men and women so that we can begin to...

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Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One

Have you ever asked yourself, why is marriage so hard? Implied in that question is that marriage shouldn't be difficult...that love should be easy, effortless. Clearly, that's not true. But marriage...

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Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?

“There is no such thing as a clean slate.” Simon Asher Beth has had so much hurt and betrayal over the last 25 years in her marriage. Her husband has shown her rage and anger, blaming her for his...

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Obligation and Marriage

“Relationships based on obligation lack dignity.” Wayne Dyer Maybe this sounds familiar to you: “Last night my husband and I were discussing whether or not he would go out of his way to pick up some...

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Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?

“Don’t settle for average. Bring your best to the moment.” Angela Bassett   My client, Tracey, is a successful real estate agent – which is to say she spends her days running around like her...

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