“The most important thing in life is knowing the most important things in life.” David F. Jakielo
Every day I speak with women and couples that are really struggling in their marriages. They tell me how stuck, lost and alone they feel. They desperately want to make the relationship feel good again, but they have no idea how to do that.
If there’s a fit and I genuinely believe I can help them, I invite them to work with me. And 75% of the time, they say they don’t have the money to invest in themselves and their marriage.
It’s interesting though, right? Because we all find money for the things that are a priority to us:
If the air conditioner broke in the middle of summer…we’d find the money to fix it.
If the transmission blew in the car tomorrow…we’d find the money to fix it.
If the roof on the home caved in and there was a $5000 insurance deductible…we’d find the money to fix the hole in the roof.
We tend to place a priority on the URGENT, but not the IMPORTANT.
So what’s the health of your marriage worth?
I know a marriage coach that charges $100,000 for a 9-month program. And people pay it. You know why? Those people have placed a priority on making their marriage work. They’re all-in. So, of course they see success.
Don’t believe your own excuses. If it’s a priority to you, you will invest in it.
Is the roof caving in on your marriage?