When You’re Just Done

When You’re Just Done

“Sometimes you just have to be done. Not mad, not upset. Just done.” Unknown My client’s husband had cheated, but she was trying to work through that… Her husband was drinking a lot, but she wanted to be understanding about that… She kept trying to talk to him about...

Why Can’t I Just Be Happy?

“Changing is Hard. Resisting Change, a lot Harder.” Eleanor Brownn My client Kathleen and her husband have been married for 22 years and they have two kids together: one is in college and the other is a junior in high school. They have had a business together for the...

How Is This Possible In Coaching?

“What is now proved, was only once imagined.” William Blake   I’m in a coaching session with my new client Eve. She tells me about how she used to be so brave in her life, traveling to different parts of the world, running a marathon, even learning to fly an...

Where does Marriage Counseling Fail Us?

“The details of what you’re fighting over are negligible compared to your innermost experience begging to be heard.” Sevin Philips, MFT Many of my clients who are struggling in their marriages attend marriage counseling with their husbands, in addition to working with...