Begging for Affection

“The hardest of all is learning to be a well of affection, and not a fountain; to show them that we love them not when we feel like it, but when they do.” Nan Fairbrother   “I can sit next to him, but I cannot lean on him or put my head on his shoulder. I can...

Some Practical Relationship Advice

“You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.”  Epicurus The average American spends 2160 days in school, and based upon the average life span, that’s...

If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?

“Let there be spaces in your togetherness.” Khalil Gibran   My clients, Jenna and Steve, have been together for 12 years, a second marriage for them both. She’s very clear that she wants more connection, more intimacy and even more fun in their relationship. She...