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What are you NOT saying?
Why you’re still struggling…
Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
Ask yourself: “Yes and…”
Have you noticed any of these red flags?
I can’t WAIT to share this with you…
Why you DON’T have to give him a list of to-do’s…
12 Things Your Wife Needs You to Know
When it’s time to ask, “Are you willing?”
Why you might be a prisoner to your past (and not even know it)
Why he won’t tend to your needs (even after you tend to his)
I promise, it’s not about you (it’s about him…)
Step OUT of your comfort zone to ignite change…
NO ONE is meant to be controlled…
Men, Women and Communication
How to Know if A Woman is Checked Out of Her Marriage
I’m monitoring everything he does…
“If I reveal my true self, I won’t be…”
Who’s Your Person?
I Stayed Longer Than I Should Have
COVID Has Been Hard on Marriages
Setting a Boundary (in the Name of Love)
Are You in a Lonely Marriage?
What Do You REALLY Want?
I Don’t Want to Lose My Family
Making a Decision When There’s an Affair
How My Marriage Kept Me Stuck in My Wounds
Who Taught Your Husband How to be a Man?
Being Ready to Create Change in Your Life
Are You Protecting a Story?
Will These Changes Last?
You Have the Relationship You Want. (Read that again.)
Is One of You an Avoidant?
Is Your Relationship Codependent?
Why We Control
What Would Happen If…
Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
The Gamble of Marriage
What Happens When We Suppress Our Emotions
What Does the Super Bowl Have to Do With Your Marriage?
Why Can’t I Just Be Happy?
2021: Will This Be the Year You Finally Decide?
The Power of the Pause (When Your Spouse Irritates You)
How Our Self-Respect Plays a Role in Marriage
I Just Want Him Back
Maybe Now Is the Perfect Time
The Quest to Better Understand Men
The Silent Contract Between You Two
Have I Outgrown My Husband?
Your Kids Aren’t Part of Your Marriage
What Are We Arguing About?
When do you know the marriage is over?
One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
One Simple Way to Get Out of Roommate Status
Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.
Inspiring Isn’t Always Effective
Looking For Peace When a Marriage is Crumbling
Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?
I’m Stuck. I Can’t Leave.
Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
Why Is Fixing the Relationship My Responsibility?
Waiting for Change
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
When a Marriage is Tested
A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
Enough is Enough. (Rant Warning)
Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
Say “Thank You”
Obligation and Marriage
Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
Begin Again
My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
When Loving You is Betraying Myself
But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
All Growth and Healing Happens in Community
Choosing Between Two Men
I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
The Intensity of Pain
We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
Can One Person Make a Difference?
Surviving Infidelity
Can I Trust Him?
Will My Husband Ever Change?
Understanding Emotional Infidelity
The Five Steps to Having Difficult Conversations
My Musings on Marriage
All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
The Shame of Staying
Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
Resentments of an Alpha Female
If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
The Kiss of Death for Your Marriage: The Need to be Right
Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
1825 Days Without Affection
Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
Sharing Some Gifts with You
Someone Has to Take the Lead
What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
What if No One has to be Wrong?
Support Groups Seem Like a Perfectly Logical Idea…
The Tornado of the Type A Woman
The Guardian of His Solitude
I Don’t Miss Him Because…
Protecting Your Heart
How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
The Four Stages of Marriage
It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
A Confused Mind Does Nothing
Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
I’m Not the Problem
When We Withhold Love
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
Indecision Sucks
We Belong to Each Other
I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
To Love takes Courage
Who Will Fix the Relationship?
How to Make a Marriage Thrive
Want to Heal Your Relationship? Find Forgiveness.
Reconnect & Learn Something New about Your Partner
A Marriage Counseling Drawback
We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
My First 100 Clients…and the Ripple Effect.
If I Stay Right Here, Nothing Bad Will Happen
Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
Your Relationship Scorecard
Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
What a Shame.
Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
I’ve Tried Everything and Nothing is Working
Three Reasons Why Asking Your Spouse to Go to Marriage Counseling with You Rarely Works
Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?
We Have Grown Apart. Here’s What to Do…
The Magic Pill for My Marriage
If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?
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What are you NOT saying?
Why you’re still struggling…
Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
You Won’t Be the Same Person
I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
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The Need to Be Right
Ways to Not Make the Same Relationship Mistakes
Why Your Wife Gets Frustrated and You Shut Down
Not Attracted To Your Wife Anymore?
Choosing Between Two Women
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