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• What are you NOT saying?
• Why you’re still struggling…
• Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
• I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
• Ask yourself: “Yes and…”
• Have you noticed any of these red flags?
• I can’t WAIT to share this with you…
• Why you DON’T have to give him a list of to-do’s…
• 12 Things Your Wife Needs You to Know
• When it’s time to ask, “Are you willing?”
• Why you might be a prisoner to your past (and not even know it)
• Why he won’t tend to your needs (even after you tend to his)
• I promise, it’s not about you (it’s about him…)
• Step OUT of your comfort zone to ignite change…
• NO ONE is meant to be controlled…
• Men, Women and Communication
• How to Know if A Woman is Checked Out of Her Marriage
• I’m monitoring everything he does…
• “If I reveal my true self, I won’t be…”
• Who’s Your Person?
• I Stayed Longer Than I Should Have
• COVID Has Been Hard on Marriages
• Setting a Boundary (in the Name of Love)
• Are You in a Lonely Marriage?
• What Do You REALLY Want?
• I Don’t Want to Lose My Family
• Making a Decision When There’s an Affair
• How My Marriage Kept Me Stuck in My Wounds
• Who Taught Your Husband How to be a Man?
• Being Ready to Create Change in Your Life
• Are You Protecting a Story?
• Will These Changes Last?
• You Have the Relationship You Want. (Read that again.)
• Is One of You an Avoidant?
• Is Your Relationship Codependent?
• Why We Control
• What Would Happen If…
• Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
• The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
• The Gamble of Marriage
• What Happens When We Suppress Our Emotions
• What Does the Super Bowl Have to Do With Your Marriage?
• Why Can’t I Just Be Happy?
• 2021: Will This Be the Year You Finally Decide?
• The Power of the Pause (When Your Spouse Irritates You)
• How Our Self-Respect Plays a Role in Marriage
• I Just Want Him Back
• Maybe Now Is the Perfect Time
• The Quest to Better Understand Men
• The Silent Contract Between You Two
• Have I Outgrown My Husband?
• Your Kids Aren’t Part of Your Marriage
• What Are We Arguing About?
• When do you know the marriage is over?
• One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
• One Simple Way to Get Out of Roommate Status
• Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.
• Inspiring Isn’t Always Effective
• Looking For Peace When a Marriage is Crumbling
• Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
• What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?
• I’m Stuck. I Can’t Leave.
• Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
• Why Is Fixing the Relationship My Responsibility?
• Waiting for Change
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
• Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
• When a Marriage is Tested
• A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
• Enough is Enough. (Rant Warning)
• Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
• Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
• Say “Thank You”
• Obligation and Marriage
• Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
• Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
• Begin Again
• My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
• Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
• Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
• Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
• When Loving You is Betraying Myself
• But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
• The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
• All Growth and Healing Happens in Community
• Choosing Between Two Men
• I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
• The Intensity of Pain
• We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
• His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
• A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
• Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
• Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
• Can One Person Make a Difference?
• Surviving Infidelity
• Can I Trust Him?
• Will My Husband Ever Change?
• Understanding Emotional Infidelity
• The Five Steps to Having Difficult Conversations
• My Musings on Marriage
• All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
• The Shame of Staying
• Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
• Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
• Resentments of an Alpha Female
• If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
• Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
• Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
• The Kiss of Death for Your Marriage: The Need to be Right
• Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
• 1825 Days Without Affection
• Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
• Sharing Some Gifts with You
• Someone Has to Take the Lead
• What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
• What if No One has to be Wrong?
• Support Groups Seem Like a Perfectly Logical Idea…
• The Tornado of the Type A Woman
• The Guardian of His Solitude
• I Don’t Miss Him Because…
• Protecting Your Heart
• How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
• The Four Stages of Marriage
• It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
• A Confused Mind Does Nothing
• Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
• What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
• I’m Not the Problem
• When We Withhold Love
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
• Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
• Indecision Sucks
• We Belong to Each Other
• I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
• How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
• Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
• What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
• Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
• Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
• To Love takes Courage
• Who Will Fix the Relationship?
• How to Make a Marriage Thrive
• Want to Heal Your Relationship? Find Forgiveness.
• Reconnect & Learn Something New about Your Partner
• A Marriage Counseling Drawback
• We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
• My First 100 Clients…and the Ripple Effect.
• If I Stay Right Here, Nothing Bad Will Happen
• Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
• Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
• The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
• Your Relationship Scorecard
• Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
• What a Shame.
• Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
• Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
• Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
• Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
• How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
• When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
• I’ve Tried Everything and Nothing is Working
• Three Reasons Why Asking Your Spouse to Go to Marriage Counseling with You Rarely Works
• Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?
• We Have Grown Apart. Here’s What to Do…
• The Magic Pill for My Marriage
• If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?