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• What love isn’t…
• What are you NOT saying?
• I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
• Why you DON’T have to give him a list of to-do’s…
• When it’s time to ask, “Are you willing?”
• Men, Women and Communication
• How to Know if A Woman is Checked Out of Her Marriage
• “If I reveal my true self, I won’t be…”
• What if real love can EVOLVE?
• Who’s Your Person?
• COVID Has Been Hard on Marriages
• A Crowded Marriage
• Setting a Boundary (in the Name of Love)
• Are You in a Lonely Marriage?
• What Do You REALLY Want?
• Are You Protecting a Story?
• Will These Changes Last?
• You Have the Relationship You Want. (Read that again.)
• Is One of You an Avoidant?
• Is Your Relationship Codependent?
• Why We Control
• What Would Happen If…
• Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
• You Marry the Family, But You Also Marry This…
• The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
• The Gamble of Marriage
• What if I’m Not Attracted to Him Anymore?
• What Happens When We Suppress Our Emotions
• What Does the Super Bowl Have to Do With Your Marriage?
• Why Can’t I Just Be Happy?
• 2021: Will This Be the Year You Finally Decide?
• The Power of the Pause (When Your Spouse Irritates You)
• Maybe Now Is the Perfect Time
• How Do I Know Whether to Stay or Go?
• The Quest to Better Understand Men
• Are you overtaking responsibility for someone else’s feelings?
• Have I Outgrown My Husband?
• Your Kids Aren’t Part of Your Marriage
• What Are We Arguing About?
• When do you know the marriage is over?
• One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
• One Simple Way to Get Out of Roommate Status
• Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.
• Inspiring Isn’t Always Effective
• What Constitutes a Successful Marriage?
• Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
• Not All Men Are “Good Men”
• What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?
• Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
• But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
• Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
• The Intensity of Pain
• Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
• Understanding Emotional Infidelity
• Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
• The Five Steps to Having Difficult Conversations
• All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
• Why Bother Trying?
• Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
• Sharing Some Gifts with You
• Someone Has to Take the Lead
• The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
• The Danger of Our Expectations. A Very Personal Story.
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
• The Tornado of the Type A Woman
• The Guardian of His Solitude
• Protecting Your Heart
• How Did We Go from Hope to Hate?
• I Didn’t Go Looking for an Affair
• When You Take Responsibility, You Have the Ability to Respond
• The Four Stages of Marriage
• Some Practical Relationship Advice
• Let’s Talk Love & Bondage…
• Two Years in Therapy and $6500 Later…
• Divorce and Our Emotions
• Comfortably Unhappy
• How are You Showing Up as a Woman?
• Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
• It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
• A Confused Mind Does Nothing
• If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
• Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
• What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
• How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
• Will My Marriage Last?
• I’m Not the Problem
• This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
• There is No Such Thing as Destiny
• When We Withhold Love
• Why We Choose to Cheat Instead of Leave a Bad Marriage
• Why I Love It When My Coaching Clients Stop Working with Me
• We Belong to Each Other
• Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
• The One Who Broke My Heart
• Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
• 50 Ways We Leave Our Lovers
• What has been Your Biggest Mistake?
• I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
• Neither Wanted to Give In… So They Both Gave Up
• Can I Afford to Leave My Husband?
• What’s Important to You?
• Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
• Choosing Peace is a Gift to Yourself
• How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
• Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
• What’s Creating the Arguing or the Distance in Relationships?
• Five Reasons Why So Many People File for Divorce in January and When is the Best Time to Divorce?
• Is There Still Hope?
• You’re on the Same Team
• Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
• To Love takes Courage
• Who Will Fix the Relationship?
• There are Two Sides to Every Story…and they’re both right.
• What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
• How to Make a Marriage Thrive
• The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
• Want to Heal Your Relationship? Find Forgiveness.
• Reconnect & Learn Something New about Your Partner
• A Marriage Counseling Drawback
• We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
• My First 100 Clients…and the Ripple Effect.
• Accepting an Apology You Never Receive
• The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
• If I Stay Right Here, Nothing Bad Will Happen
• Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
• Seek This Before Deciding to Leave Your Marriage
• The Secret Wellness Tool that Will Help You Get Through Divorce
• Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
• Conventional Wisdom Doesn’t Work in Our Relationships
• Why Do So Many Second and Third Marriages End?
• The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
• Your Relationship Scorecard
• Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
• What a Shame.
• Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
• I Wish He Would
• Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
• Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
• Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
• Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
• How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
• The Hidden Toll of an Unhealthy Marriage
• When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
• I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
• What I Know about Love from Being in the Wrong Marriage
• Four Reasons Why I Make No Apologies for My Price
• Stop Engaging in “The Crazy.”
• Too Little. Too Late.
• 90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
• What if Your Relationship is Complete?
• How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?
• You Have 3 Options When Your Marriage is Falling Apart
• You’ve Changed…
• Is This the Kind of Marriage You Hope Your Daughter has One Day?
• 10 Quotes for Understanding Why Some Marriages Struggle
• The Problem with Staying for the Kids
• The Disconnected Marriage
• Love Him, but Not in Love with Him
• Compare and Despair
• The Pain in Relationships is Circular
• When Your Ex is Ruining Your Life
• Your Husband Left. It Didn’t Happen Overnight.
• Why is Connecting with My Husband so Difficult?
• My Life Needed to be Blown-Up
• 5 Steps to Not Repeating Your Relationship Mistakes
• How Life Coaches are Like Personal Trainers.
• What are You Allowing in Your Relationship?
• What I Learned from Jim Masters & How It Relates to Our Relationships
• The Single Biggest Relationship Mistake that We ALL Make
• Soft and Strong
• Keeping the Boardroom Out of the Bedroom: Keeping the Intimacy of Marriage
• I’ve Tried Everything and Nothing is Working
• My Biggest Beef with the Self-Help Industry
• Three Reasons Why Asking Your Spouse to Go to Marriage Counseling with You Rarely Works
• Does It Take Two People to Fix a Marriage?
• The Loveless Marriage
• How to Heal After an Affair
• I Have No Reason to Leave
• I Can’t Leave My Marriage and I Can’t Stop My Affair
• When Good Women Cheat
• The Opposite of Love Isn’t Hate. It’s Indifference.
• There is No Relationships Class. No One Teaches Us How to Do This
• We Have Grown Apart. Here’s What to Do…
• I’m so Selfish
• Why Can’t He Stop Cheating? And Why Can’t I Walk Away? Here are the Options.
• Have Someone in Your Family that’s Hard to Love? Try This.
• January is Considered Divorce Month for a Reason
• His Affair. Her Heartbreak. Rinse and Repeat.
• What I’m Learning from Coaching Men
• The Facebook Affair
• The Paradox of Loneliness
• Is My Marriage in Trouble?
• If You Leave Your Marriage, You Take Yourself with You
• A Cry for Help: When Your Marriage is in Trouble, the Distance Grows Wider and You get Rebellious
• On Some Level, We Knew the Truth
• The Magic Pill for My Marriage
• Can a Troubled Marriage be Saved?
• Will He Ever Change?
• The REAL Story about My First Marriage and Why It Ended
• The Safe Marriage
• The Single Worst Piece of Advice I’ve Ever Heard from a Therapist
• Soften Up, Baby
• What if There’s Never Any Closure?
• The Battle between the Heart and Mind
• Heal from a Relationship with a Narcissist & Never Allow that into Your Heart Again
• Why Isn’t This Enough?
• I Love Him, but I’m Not in Love with Him
• If I’m so Smart, Why Can’t I Fix My Marriage?
• When the Arguing Ends and You’re Left with a Grudging Tolerance
• Your Sexless Marriage
• My Single Biggest Piece of Advice for Men
• Life Outside Your Safe Zone
• Seeing Through the Eyes of Love
• The Inevitability of Change in Relationships
• That’s His Story
• Why Can’t I Get Over Him? Here’s 3 Reasons.
• Was My Ex a Narcissist?
• Being Intentional about the Energy You Allow
• Why I’m Not a Fan of Affirmations
• What’s Whispering to You Right Now?
• Can We Save this Marriage?
• Staying Stuck in the Questions
• Love is My Religion
• Fear and Calm can Co-Exist
• Permission to Evolve
• The Inseparability of Truth and Love
• Someday I Will
• Limitless
• Maybe Am I in the Wrong Marriage is the Wrong Question.
• The Three “F” Words in Your Relationship
• Love is Durable. Trust is Fragile. Respect is Crucial.
• Stuck in Indecision
• A Whole New Way to Think About Self-Love
• Nothing to Lose and Only Love to Gain
• No Mud. No Lotus.
• If It Feels Good, Do It.
• How We Love
• Do You Want Love or Do You Just Want to Want It?
• Here’s the Truth: It’s Time to Ask a Better Question
• Fear or Love: Part 2
• Fear or Love: Those are Our Options and We Get to Choose
• What’s Your Story? Is it Keeping You Stuck?
• Forgive Yourself
• The Lesson We Most Need to Learn
• Why We Attract People Who Need Saving
• Prepare for Love to Come Flooding In
• Our Happiness: Our Job
• Love by July
• Making Room for Love
• What if You were Already Alone?
• The Sacred Difference Between Action & Inspired Action
• Permission Slips
• Together & Alone
• Love with Your Eyes Wide Open
• The Most Important Step in Finding Love
• Everything You Want in Love is Waiting for You
• Our Closest Relationships are Our Greatest Spiritual Teachers
• Relationship Patterns & Soulful Truth Telling
• Acts of Courage for Your Soul
• The Awakening
• In Love with Love
• Get Comfortable with Getting Uncomfortable
• Life Will Never be the Same
• 3 Ways to Stay Stuck
• Should I Stay or Should I Go?
• Breakups are a Gift
• Living in the Light
• 3 Things My Husband has Taught Me about Love
• It’s the Crazy Crap that Makes Me Laugh and Love Them Even More
• If I Only Knew Then What I Know Now
• We Attract What We Are
• Authenticity & an Aspiring Life Coach
• 10 Things Every Woman Should Know about Love and Dating by the Time They’re 40!