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• Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
• You Won’t Be the Same Person
• I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
• Ask yourself: “Yes and…”
• Have you noticed any of these red flags?
• 12 Things Your Wife Needs You to Know
• I promise, it’s not about you (it’s about him…)
• “I Need Closure.”
• Step OUT of your comfort zone to ignite change…
• NO ONE is meant to be controlled…
• Men, Women and Communication
• How to Know if A Woman is Checked Out of Her Marriage
• Why holidays bring out the best and the worst in us…
• Who’s Your Person?
• I Stayed Longer Than I Should Have
• When You’re Just Done
• Are You in a Lonely Marriage?
• What Do You REALLY Want?
• I Don’t Want to Lose My Family
• Is Affection Built on Nature or Nurture?
• Are You Protecting a Story?
• You Have the Relationship You Want. (Read that again.)
• Is One of You an Avoidant?
• I Can’t Do That to Him
• Why We Control
• What Would Happen If…
• Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
• You Marry the Family, But You Also Marry This…
• The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
• The Gamble of Marriage
• What if I’m Not Attracted to Him Anymore?
• What Happens When We Suppress Our Emotions
• What Does the Super Bowl Have to Do With Your Marriage?
• Why Can’t I Just Be Happy?
• The Power of the Pause (When Your Spouse Irritates You)
• How Our Self-Respect Plays a Role in Marriage
• I Just Want Him Back
• Maybe Now Is the Perfect Time
• How Do I Know Whether to Stay or Go?
• The Quest to Better Understand Men
• Are you overtaking responsibility for someone else’s feelings?
• Have I Outgrown My Husband?
• Your Kids Aren’t Part of Your Marriage
• What Are We Arguing About?
• When do you know the marriage is over?
• One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
• One Simple Way to Get Out of Roommate Status
• Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.
• What Constitutes a Successful Marriage?
• Looking For Peace When a Marriage is Crumbling
• My Affair Made Me Feel Alive…or Maybe It was Something Else
• Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
• Not All Men Are “Good Men”
• What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?
• I’m Stuck. I Can’t Leave.
• Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
• Why Is Fixing the Relationship My Responsibility?
• What’s the Worst That Will Happen?
• A Mic Drop Marriage Moment
• Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
• Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
• Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
• When a Marriage is Tested
• When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
• I’m Stuck. Is That True?
• It’s Going to Get Rough 🌩️
• Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
• A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
• Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
• Say “Thank You”
• Obligation and Marriage
• Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
• Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
• Begin Again
• My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
• Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
• Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
• Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
• But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
• I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
• We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
• His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
• A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
• Children and Divorce: What if Your Kids Could Thrive?
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
• Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
• Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
• But My Situation Is Different…
• Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
• Can One Person Make a Difference?
• Surviving Infidelity
• Can I Trust Him?
• Will My Husband Ever Change?
• Understanding Emotional Infidelity
• How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
• My Musings on Marriage
• All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
• The Shame of Staying
• Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
• Resentments of an Alpha Female
• If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
• Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
• Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
• 1825 Days Without Affection
• Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
• Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
• When We Betray Ourselves
• The Power in Making a Decision
• When You Take Responsibility, You Have the Ability to Respond
• The Four Stages of Marriage
• Divorce and Our Emotions
• Comfortably Unhappy
• Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
• It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
• A Confused Mind Does Nothing
• If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
• Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
• How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
• I’m Not the Problem
• This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
• There is No Such Thing as Destiny
• When We Withhold Love
• The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
• Why I Love It When My Coaching Clients Stop Working with Me
• We Belong to Each Other
• Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
• He Doesn’t Get It
• I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
• Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
• How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
• Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
• To Love takes Courage
• The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
• The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
• How to Admit Your Role in a Failed Relationship (without Blaming Yourself)
• What to Do when Your Relationship with a Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart
• 90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
• Can I Have the Life I Want with My Husband?