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Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
You Won’t Be the Same Person
I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
Ask yourself: “Yes and…”
Have you noticed any of these red flags?
12 Things Your Wife Needs You to Know
I promise, it’s not about you (it’s about him…)
“I Need Closure.”
Step OUT of your comfort zone to ignite change…
NO ONE is meant to be controlled…
Men, Women and Communication
How to Know if A Woman is Checked Out of Her Marriage
Why holidays bring out the best and the worst in us…
Who’s Your Person?
I Stayed Longer Than I Should Have
When You’re Just Done
Are You in a Lonely Marriage?
What Do You REALLY Want?
I Don’t Want to Lose My Family
Is Affection Built on Nature or Nurture?
Are You Protecting a Story?
You Have the Relationship You Want. (Read that again.)
Is One of You an Avoidant?
I Can’t Do That to Him
Why We Control
What Would Happen If…
Is Your Independence Helping or Hurting Your Marriage?
You Marry the Family, But You Also Marry This…
The Best Relationships Are Not Without Conflict
The Gamble of Marriage
What if I’m Not Attracted to Him Anymore?
What Happens When We Suppress Our Emotions
What Does the Super Bowl Have to Do With Your Marriage?
Why Can’t I Just Be Happy?
The Power of the Pause (When Your Spouse Irritates You)
How Our Self-Respect Plays a Role in Marriage
I Just Want Him Back
Maybe Now Is the Perfect Time
How Do I Know Whether to Stay or Go?
The Quest to Better Understand Men
Are you overtaking responsibility for someone else’s feelings?
Have I Outgrown My Husband?
Your Kids Aren’t Part of Your Marriage
What Are We Arguing About?
When do you know the marriage is over?
One Conversation Created A Miracle For One Couple
One Simple Way to Get Out of Roommate Status
Controlling For 30 Years…Until Now.
What Constitutes a Successful Marriage?
Looking For Peace When a Marriage is Crumbling
My Affair Made Me Feel Alive…or Maybe It was Something Else
Why Can’t I Love My Husband Again?
Not All Men Are “Good Men”
What Have You Given Up on in Your Marriage?
I’m Stuck. I Can’t Leave.
Why Divorce Should ALWAYS Be an Option
Why Is Fixing the Relationship My Responsibility?
What’s the Worst That Will Happen?
A Mic Drop Marriage Moment
Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
When a Marriage is Tested
When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
I’m Stuck. Is That True?
It’s Going to Get Rough 🌩️
Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
Say “Thank You”
Obligation and Marriage
Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
Begin Again
My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
Alpha Men and Beta Men. Alpha Women and Beta Women.
Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
Children and Divorce: What if Your Kids Could Thrive?
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
But My Situation Is Different…
Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
Can One Person Make a Difference?
Surviving Infidelity
Can I Trust Him?
Will My Husband Ever Change?
Understanding Emotional Infidelity
How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
My Musings on Marriage
All Love Matters…Even When It Ends
The Shame of Staying
Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
Resentments of an Alpha Female
If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
Why People in Healthcare Struggle in Their Marriages
1825 Days Without Affection
Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
When We Betray Ourselves
The Power in Making a Decision
When You Take Responsibility, You Have the Ability to Respond
The Four Stages of Marriage
Divorce and Our Emotions
Comfortably Unhappy
Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
A Confused Mind Does Nothing
If I Lean Back, Will He Lean In?
Maybe Communication Isn’t the Only Answer to Creating Intimacy
How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
I’m Not the Problem
This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
There is No Such Thing as Destiny
When We Withhold Love
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs of a Marriage in Trouble
Why I Love It When My Coaching Clients Stop Working with Me
We Belong to Each Other
Anything We Are Experiencing, We Are Choosing.
He Doesn’t Get It
I’ve Read Everything & Nothing’s Changed
Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
How We Communicate is a Result of How We Feel
Communication and Relationships: This Blew My Mind
To Love takes Courage
The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
How to Admit Your Role in a Failed Relationship (without Blaming Yourself)
What to Do when Your Relationship with a Narcissist (Inevitably) Falls Apart
90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
Can I Have the Life I Want with My Husband?
Most Recent For Women
What are you NOT saying?
Why you’re still struggling…
Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
You Won’t Be the Same Person
I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
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Most Recent For Men
The Need to Be Right
Ways to Not Make the Same Relationship Mistakes
Why Your Wife Gets Frustrated and You Shut Down
Not Attracted To Your Wife Anymore?
Choosing Between Two Women
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