Ten Tips to Divorce Differently

“What if I didn’t blame the other person for anything, and held myself 100 percent accountable? What if I checked my own s— at the door and put my children first? What if I reminded myself of the things about my ex-husband that I love, and fostered the...
All Love Matters…Even When It Ends

All Love Matters…Even When It Ends

When my client, who I’ll refer to as Vicky began working with me, she was trying to determine if there was any hope for her marriage that had been on the ropes for years. They were separated and ready to file papers, but she was still holding on and wasn’t sure...

What if There’s Never Any Closure?

“Those things we can’t find closure on, they haunt us. They pop up in our dreams, and creep into our thoughts in idle moments…” Lisa Unger   Kristen and her husband were together for 11 years. She thought they had a happy life: they had two amazing boys, a...