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my marriage is a mess
Why you’re still struggling…
Have you noticed any of these red flags?
I promise, it’s not about you (it’s about him…)
Step OUT of your comfort zone to ignite change…
I’m monitoring everything he does…
COVID Has Been Hard on Marriages
A Crowded Marriage
Is Affection Built on Nature or Nurture?
Do I Have to Forget the Past to Move Forward?
2021: Will This Be the Year You Finally Decide?
I Just Want Him Back
The Silent Contract Between You Two
Why We Don’t Do What We Should Be Doing
Waiting for Change
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part Three
Why Is Marriage So Hard? – Part Two
Why is Marriage So Hard? – Part One
When a Marriage is Tested
When We’re Not Threatened, We’re Not Defensive
I’m Stuck. Is That True?
Three Steps to Getting Your Needs Met in Your Marriage
A Perfect Storm: Increased Stress and More Time Together
Surviving Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is Struggling
Do We Need a Clean Slate to Move Forward?
Obligation and Marriage
Sounding the Alarm Bells on Gaslighting
Unconditional Love is Not Unconditional Consequences
My Marriage is a Mess. Why Look for Gratitude?
Why Most Affairs Don’t Live Happily Ever After
Give Up the Need to Know…For Now.
When Loving You is Betraying Myself
But Aren’t We Supposed to Make Each Other Happy?
The Most Damaging Lie We Tell in our Marriages
All Growth and Healing Happens in Community
Choosing Between Two Men
I Hope I’m Never Someone’s Contingency Plan
Women Leave Mentally Before They Leave Physically
The Intensity of Pain
We Have High Expectations for Our Marriages
His Wife Is Changing…and He Doesn’t Like It
A Marriage Tool for Having Difficult Conversations
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 3
Is it Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 2
Is It Possible to Heal a Marriage After an Affair? Part 1.
Is Your Marriage Surviving on Leftovers?
But My Situation Is Different…
Ten Tips to Divorce Differently
Difficult Conversations Will Be Uncomfortable
Can One Person Make a Difference?
Can I Trust Him?
Will My Husband Ever Change?
Understanding Emotional Infidelity
Verbally Abusive Relationship
How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over?
Our Arguments Never Get Resolved
She was Putting Her Kids in the Middle
My Musings on Marriage
The Shame of Staying
Was Your Marriage Put on a Shelf?
Are You Growing Closer Together or Drifting Further Apart?
Resentments of an Alpha Female
If Your Husband is Controlling, Here’s Why.
Loving Unconditionally is the Hardest Work We’ll Ever Do
Why We Avoid Setting Boundaries
1825 Days Without Affection
Some of the Most Successful People You Know Have Relationship Struggles
Why Bother Trying?
Your Relationship Prep for the New Year
Sharing Some Gifts with You
Someone Has to Take the Lead
The Difference between Loving Someone & Using Them…
What Will Happen If I Let It Go?
The Danger of Our Expectations. A Very Personal Story.
The Mature Marriage: Five Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble
What if No One has to be Wrong?
The Tornado of the Type A Woman
The Guardian of His Solitude
The Power in Making a Decision
How are You Showing Up as a Woman?
Given What’s Happening, Should Marriage Still Legally be Allowed?
It’s Not Magic …But It Is Magical
A Confused Mind Does Nothing
What if I Don’t Want to Save My Marriage?
How Important is the Health of Your Marriage?
Would You Stay if Your Husband Cheated? Three Questions to Help You Decide if You Should Stay or Go.
Will My Marriage Last?
I’m Not the Problem
This is What to Do with Drama and Struggle
When We Withhold Love
Having It All Together is Highly Overrated
Connection and Intimacy: Can It be Created?
Want More Intimacy? Create Some Separation.
To Love takes Courage
What It’s Like When We Love Someone but are No Longer in Love.
How to Make a Marriage Thrive
The Marriage We Have is a Result of Our Thoughts
The Danger of a Marriage on Auto-Pilot
We Do What We Want to Do. Period.
Accepting an Apology You Never Receive
The Missing Piece in Your Decision to Leave Your Marriage
Seeking Answers for My Marriage…
Seek This Before Deciding to Leave Your Marriage
Are the Empty Nest Blues Placing Your Marriage at Risk?
Does He Have Something to Hide
The 10 Minute Marriage Fix
Your Relationship Scorecard
Are You the Weakest Link in Your Relationship?
Other People Don’t Belong in Your Marriage
Marriage Vows and Divorce: Is Till Death Do Us Part Still Relevant?
Your Hurt. Your Pain. Your Anger.
Enough Distracting from Your Disconnected Marriage. Plus an Invitation for You.
Thirty Phrases that can Save a Troubled Marriage
How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?
Owning My Part: How I Found Success in the Failure of My Marriage
The Hidden Toll of an Unhealthy Marriage
When Temporary Separation from Your Partner is a Good Thing
I Stayed in the Wrong Marriage for 11 Years
What I Know about Love from Being in the Wrong Marriage
Four Reasons Why I Make No Apologies for My Price
How Is This Possible In Coaching?
Too Little. Too Late.
90% of You Will Not Attempt to Solve the Problem and More than 50% of You will Divorce.
Is He on Good Behavior or Is This Lasting Change?
What if Your Relationship is Complete?
How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?
You Have 3 Options When Your Marriage is Falling Apart
Is This the Kind of Marriage You Hope Your Daughter has One Day?
10 Quotes for Understanding Why Some Marriages Struggle
It’s Not (Only) About the Affair
The Disconnected Marriage
Just Because He Lied or Cheated Doesn’t Make Him a Narcissist
An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.
Why is Connecting with My Husband so Difficult?
My Life Needed to be Blown-Up
How Life Coaches are Like Personal Trainers.
What are You Allowing in Your Relationship?
The Most Important Thing a Man Wants
What I Learned from Jim Masters & How It Relates to Our Relationships
My Affair is Over. Now What?
We’re Missing an Intimate Connection. Here’s Why…
There are No Guarantees in Love
My Biggest Beef with the Self-Help Industry
I Can’t Leave My Marriage and I Can’t Stop My Affair
The Opposite of Love Isn’t Hate. It’s Indifference.
Why Isn’t This Enough?
Valentine’s Day when Your Marriage is a Mess
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What are you NOT saying?
Why you’re still struggling…
Why you HAVE to jump into the deep end…
You Won’t Be the Same Person
I’m So Glad that I Did Not Leave
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The Need to Be Right
Ways to Not Make the Same Relationship Mistakes
Why Your Wife Gets Frustrated and You Shut Down
Not Attracted To Your Wife Anymore?
Choosing Between Two Women
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