Our Arguments Never Get Resolved

“If someone is arguing with you, you are saying something arguable.” Julia B. Colwell, PhD   One of the things I help my private clients do is identify the patterns of engagement with their spouses, specifically how they argue or disagree with one another.  It...

We Belong to Each Other

“If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” Mother Theresa I think nothing happens simply by coincidence so when I randomly open a spiritual book and a few hours later I listen to a business podcast and both talking about the...

There are No Guarantees in Love

“If you want a guarantee, buy a toaster.” Clint Eastwood   Donna has been with her husband for 30 years, married 28 years. He’s all she has ever known. They have two kids together, who are now grown and building lives of their own. Donna has been struggling in...