The Guardian of His Solitude

“The point of marriage is not to create a quick commonality by tearing down all boundaries; on the contrary, a good marriage is one in which each partner appoints the other to be the guardian of his solitude, and thus they show each other the greatest possible trust.”...

What a Shame.

“Between what is said and not meant, and what is meant and not said, most of love is lost.” Khalil Gibran He is a good man. He was raised by his grandmother and taught to be honest and responsible. He cares deeply about people, loves his children more than life itself...

How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?

“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” Albert Einstein   When we’re struggling in our marriages, we’re always looking for a way to improve it, to make it feel better. But all too often, what ends up happening is...

How Do I Tell My Husband I’m Unhappy?

“Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life. Without it…it dies.” Tony Gaskins   The best predictor for whether a couple will ultimately divorce is not their age, income or even whether they are facing stressful life challenges. It’s how they...