What’s Important to You?

“…take a moment and ask yourself what is really important. Have the wisdom and courage to build your life around that answer.” Lee Jampolsky When I was unhappy and struggling in my first marriage, it impacted literally every other aspect of my life: I wasn’t as...

You’re on the Same Team

“Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.” Michelle Obama   My husband Derrick came up with a sweet little phrase that has proven to be incredibly...

How Did My Marriage Get So Bad?

“We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” Albert Einstein   When we’re struggling in our marriages, we’re always looking for a way to improve it, to make it feel better. But all too often, what ends up happening is...