An Abandoned Home. A Disconnected Marriage.

“When we are feeling disconnected from our partner, it isn’t necessarily a sign to leave, but a sign to go deeper.” Jennifer Wardowski   Last summer, my husband and I purchased a 60+ year old home from a darling 80+ year old woman. The home had become too much for her...

We Have Grown Apart. Here’s What to Do…

“When you turn your back, you’ve lost her.” Estee Lauder   You’ve stopped sharing your hopes and dreams, passions and desires with each other. Your conversations are ruled by all the logistics for the kids. You haven’t looked in each other’s eyes in forever…and...

The Paradox of Loneliness

“I used to feel that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. IT’S NOT. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.” Robin Williams   We say “I do.” We settle in as married couple. We may even plan for children. We carry the...

I Should Be Grateful

“Healing works through a kind of detox; things have to come up in order to be released….we can’t just push the darkness down, pour pink paint over it and then pretend it’s not there. We have to look at it, accept that it exists and then release it for healing.”...