The Shame of Staying

“Shame is a soul eating emotion.” Carl Gustav Jung   My new client, who I’ll refer to as Paula, recently found out that her husband has been having an affair with another woman for at least ten years. As you can imagine, she’s devastated. Ten years together isn’t...

How to Heal After an Affair

“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”  Jalaluddin Rumi   The moment when you find out your spouse has cheated on you… Words fail to describe the gravity of how it feels. It hits you like a ton of bricks… You’re in shock… You can’t...