The Intensity of Pain

“Never be ashamed of how deeply and passionately you loved someone who destroyed you, because destroying things is just who they are…and loving things deeply and passionately is who you are.”   butterflies rising   When Victoria found out about her husband’s...

The Shame of Staying

“Shame is a soul eating emotion.” Carl Gustav Jung   My new client, who I’ll refer to as Paula, recently found out that her husband has been having an affair with another woman for at least ten years. As you can imagine, she’s devastated. Ten years together isn’t...