“Anyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever finally comes to realize that nothing really belongs to them.” -Paulo Coelho Stacy’s affair of three years just ended. She’s heartbroken. She had been holding out hope that one day, they could be together....
We cannot take on another’s journey any more than another can die our death for us. – James Hollis Jackie is afraid to tell her husband the truth. She’s afraid that if he knew how disconnected she felt from him and how she was considering leaving the marriage it...
“Only one thing is more frightening than speaking your truth, and that is not speaking.” – Naomi Wolf One of my clients came downstairs and picked a fight with her husband about how messy the kitchen was while he was cooking dinner. “Can’t you ever just cook a...
“I went to war for what we had; you never even laced your boots.” N.R. Shepherd When do you know the marriage is over? When do you stop fighting for the marriage? My client listed all the things that are not working in her marriage: No affection and intimacy. They...
“neither of us is happy but neither of us wants to leave so we keep breaking one another and calling it love.” -Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey One of my clients recently shared with me an analogy of how her marriage had been like chandelier over the last ten years: The day...
