When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.” Thomas Sowell How many women have asked, “My husband and I have been disconnected for many years. How can we feel closer as a...
“Let yourself be open and life will be easier.” Buddha Siddhartha Recently, someone asked me, “Can two people who have been disconnected for YEARS ever find their way back to one another?” The answer is yes. Not a resounding, “Hell yeah!” but more like a gentle nod...
WHAT I FEAR MOSTis the half-dead life. The neither this nor that life. The in-between,down the crack life. The one I can’t decidewhether I shouldor shouldn’t life. Because a limbo lifeis a half-dead lifeand seems to always be alingering in the creases life. It is a...
“I know it’s a hard lesson to learn, but you cannot love yourself and love someone who hurts you at the same time. Please choose you.” Stephanie Bennett-Henry My client’s husband is controlling. She wants him to hear her thoughts and perspectives, without immediately...
“Refusing to ask for help when you need it is refusing someone the chance to be helpful.” Ric Ocasek When our lives become stressful, do you think we should communicate more or less inside our marriage? We know the answer intellectually, but what do we usually do? We...
